I am writing to address a concerning trend in the escorting and hobbyists world. There has been a significant increase in clients scheduling appointments and failing to attend, confirm, cancel, or reschedule. Furthermore, many of these individuals are not fulfilling their obligations regarding cancellation fees. I'd like to think that seasoned hobbyists understand the importance of keeping appointments and communicating any changes. Unfortunately, the lack of courtesy and respect exhibited by the growing number of clients is unacceptable. As a professional in this industry since 2013, I can attest that this is not only unprofessional but also failing to notify us of changes and/or ignoring our messages can have serious consequences, including lost opportunities for other clients and financial losses for us. Cancellation fees are in place to account for the lost opportunities and time that could have been spent with other clients who do value our services. Failure to provide us with respect, timely communication, and fair compensation for our time means possibly blacklisting clients by notifying other providers of certain hobbyists behavior and their lack of respect towards us and our negative experiences with them only shows other providers what they can possibly experience or expect too!! I am writing to effect change and inform new hobbyists of the importance of respecting providers and the industry's future. I'm not a fan of wiki but there is a webpage called "How to be an escorts favorite client" and I believe that every new client should read that webpage just to have an idea of what to expect and how to be respectful towards us Providers/Companions, and it also shows y'all how to keep yourselves safe and how you can protect yourself from doing something that could get y'all in trouble by possibly being caught in a sting!! It does bring up a lot the importance of tipping!! Which I will say right now in my opinion that it's accepted but definitely not required. If you want to tip or do something nice for your provider then you could ask if they have a wishlist, including sizes, favorite colors, scents, etc. Sometimes we will have a menu also which tells y'all what we do or don't do, if we offer fetishes and or kinks and what the donations for those are, as well. It's also good to look up the different abbreviations and what they mean to help minimize the amount of messages that are being sent back and forth. Which is important to some of us providers!! Thank you for taking the time to read this blog entry as it means a lot to me!! It makes you aware of some things that you might think is not that important and it also helps build our future together!!
