Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I absolutely have formed healthy and mutually rewarding bonds with loyal patrons. However, I would never feel seeking the company of another companion is inappropriate. I'm very confident in who I am and what I bring to the table as a luxury confidant. As individuals we must learn, no one can do what you do. And that is your superpower. If one of my patrons wishes to seek another courtesan, by all means. But I will in no way take that as slight to who I am as a person or a woman. That being said, I happily give references to courtesans requesting them for new patrons who have previously enjoyed my company.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
Know you're not going to hell for claiming what you want. The first thing I get out of the way is explaining to a new patron that they're doing nothing wrong. Society may place rules on what is deemed erring or immoral, but you're not wrong for being attracted to the same sex. You're not wrong for wanting a woman who's clean, engaging and wants to please you. Not every patron wants to just pick up some random fling in a bar. You're not wrong for wanting someone who knows what they're doing. You're certainly not wrong for wanting someone to takes pride in their appearance and willingly accepts the mutual arrangement the two of you have.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
Whatever get's me closer to turning my house into my dream home is what makes me happiest. And I do love to travel! A trip to an exotic destination is always astounding. I do have a wish list on my website, but I don't put value in the opulence. I put value in equity. Long term investments. Shit that lasts. I'm in warp speed. Light years ahead of getting lost in the frivolous.
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
Putting my patron at ease and honestly listening to their woes and strife. I have heard other courtesans complain about their patrons dumping all of their problems on them and how much they're sick of it. But I find it very therapeutic. Instead of going home and yelling at their families or taking it out on colleagues at work, they're releasing that stress with you. It's a healthy way to decompress and recenter. I welcome it. I've been told I'm a very good conversationalist. I think it's because I'm a good listener. When I ask my patron, "How are you?" I really mean it. Tell me how you are. I really want to hear it. Nothing's fake with me. What you see is what you get. Take it or leave it. I'm crazy, sexy cool like that.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
My writing, fitness and personal rejuvenation is of the upmost importance to me. I can't care for my patron if I can't take time to care for myself. So once a week or once a month is perfectly fine. However, I am willing to see new patrons if references and personal screening is verified and their deposit is made.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
Anticipation is what takes over. I am always so flattered when my patron takes times out of their whirlwind life to spend time with me. It's very endearing.
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
You have to be real. Period. No CEO, successful businessman or mogul is going to fall for a woman who's just being whoever she thinks he wants her to be. If you're faking it, you better be damn good at it. Because he's going to see right through it. You have to be truly passionate about making a connection. Seeing past the money, the first-class flights and all of the finery. You have to see that he's a man. She's a woman. Your patrons are human. They're flawed the same as you. If they get cut, they bleed. They put their pants on one leg at a time like any other individual. They're not just a fucking paycheck. Always always be thankful, grateful and appreciative. Because they could have chose anyone to be by their side. But they chose you. Acknowledge it.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
First it is important to talk to at least two other courtesans that are willing to guide you through the best way to understand our world. Don't walk into this life with rose-tinted glasses. If you think you're going to be a millionaire overnight, you may want to rethink your decision. If you're not fine with keeping your double life from friends and family, rethink your decision. If you're not good at returning texts, emails keeping appointments or booking flights, rethink your decision. If you're not good at keeping your appearance up to par and always looking your best, rethink your decision. If you're spending money as fast as you make it, you won't last long. You can make copious amounts of money being a courtesan and still have nothing to show for it if you don't know how to manage your money and save. So there are several dynamics to consider before making this decision. Make sure it's right for you.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
Phew...here goes...Short term, I'm soon to be renovating my home in the next couple of years and I am pre-planning with an architect for that. I am also working on my next full length novel. My short/hopefully not too long term goal is to land a publishing deal for my fictional works.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
If they are boundary pushers, if they try to enforce unsafe practices, or if their cancellations are not legitimate, they're NOT clients.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
Actually, I haven't had anything out of the ordinary yet! But who knows. Life is bound to throw the unexpected here or there.
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
Yes. I thought I would be nervous, but I was more excited than anything. My first patron was clean, polite, kind, courteous and all of the things one would expect from a gentlemen suitor. He set my standards high. Because once you've been treated with kindness, warmth and respect, there's no accepting less. And he really made me laugh!
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
Exactly what I am now. A good friend. A writer. A traveler. And a woman who knows anything is possible. If you speak it, the universe will give it to you when it's time for you to receive it.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Yes! I have much more of an understanding for their need for an elusive confidant. Some patrons have lost their loved one and courtesans help them through their loss. Others are bachelors who don't want to waste time playing the dating game without truly knowing if this stranger is into what they like. Others feel trapped by their sexuality because of religion and social status and they need that special someone who won't judge or reject them.
How long have you been working as an escort?
Just over 2 years.
How did you get into the escort business?
I was fortunate enough to meet two lovely courtesans who basically told me this can be a very lucrative venture and you can have so much fun and meet genuine, powerful and very influential people if you play your cards right. That was all it took for me.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
Making a true connection with like minded spirits. Traveling all over to different places. Living life and still having time for my writing and my own personal care.
What don't you like about being an escort?
Well, as I stated before, I only see a select few. So many on the outside looking in at courtesans seem to think we're seeing multiple clients per day and that just isn't true. The most elite courtesans see less patrons than the average woman in the dating world. So the misconception is an affront to what we stand for as luxury companions.
How often do you work per week?
I have a select few patrons. So I typical spend time with them a few times a month. However, I am accepting new inquiries via my reservation form on my website.
What are your turn-offs?
I cater to kindness and affection. Not egos. Also, cleanliness is paramount. Take the time to keep yourself as well groomed as you expect me to be.