Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
Of course I have regulars with whom I've bonded with. But no, I don't feel cheated upon. Men will do as they like and so will I. I don't own them, and they don't own me.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
I've had a fine time with those I met who claimed they were new to this (it is often a claim that isn't true, but I'm not one to douse a client fantasy if he wants to say he hasn't seen escorts but I already know from our escort boards that he has). To make things enjoyable with me, be sane, generous, attractive, and a great date. Pretty simple!
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I am not going to say that I'm better than other escorts. Not cool. I'm as unique and also as typical as any other human. My favorite kind of service is an overnight date somewhere luxurious, with a great meal and conversation, sleep, and a great goodbye in the morning.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
He is to use my website. Nothing there is negotiable, so if anything doesn't fit for him, he'll know we're not a match and he and I can choose others. If he can't or won't comply with the website stuff, he and I aren't going to meet.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
Sure, every time. It's like a date, but with a HECK of a lot more potential downside. So it's terrifying. But thrilling when it goes well and a new friend is made!
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
I don't know what makes other escorts successful, but for me it has helped to like men, be adventurous, be wise and careful, be beautiful and sexy, and stick up for myself. She should probably have all of that going for her.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
I would recommend they learn to write code, and move to China instead. I've survived and succeeded in this industry, but I would recommend she choose another...for reasons I don't want to talk about here.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
To continue to have as much fun as I've been having so far!
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
Anyone who won't be fully screened and comply with deposits. My life's safety is not negotiable and is worth far more than their money. They try to balk at these rules, they cease to exist for me.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
Lots of intense BDSM...I look a bit like a dominatrix (dark hair, pointy eyebrows), and therefore I get a lot of requests to be cruel and mean. Heck, if it makes someone happy...
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
Sure; he was lovely, sane, calm and fun. I was hooked! I learned later they weren't all so perfect, but it was a good start. He and I still see one another.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A scientist. I did become one (after undergrad), and hated it. Box checked, on to other things now.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Nope. I've always loved them for who and what they really are. I don't need them to pretend, to adore them. I accept and quite like them.
How long have you been working as an escort?
Over a decade. I love it!
How did you get into the escort business?
I was in graduate school and had heard of it, but not yet tried it. Found myself broke, lonely and bored...so it fit me perfectly! The rest is history, as they say.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
The gentlemen I've had the pleasure of traveling the world with.
What don't you like about being an escort?
All the insane email from non-clients, and the abuse from "managers" and competitors.
How often do you work per week?
depends...sometimes I travel with a client all week, other times I take several weeks off. It varies widely.
What are your turn-offs?
cruelty, poor hygiene, frugality, poor communication, insanity.