Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I do have regular clients who I feel close to. But we are not married. I would not expect a client to object to my having other clients. I would never mind a client seeing other escorts. Variety is the spice of life, and I want my favorite clients to enjoy all that life has to offer. I consider many long term clients to be my good friends, so I care about them and want them to be happy. Being obsessed with one escort is not a good way to achieve happiness.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
I have options for screening newbies but you are going to have to give some information about yourself, for my security and peace of mind. You will have more fun if I don't feel anxious.
Also, be friendly. Talk to me like you would talk to anyone else. You can talk about the weather if you can't think of anything else, but don't be silent. I might think you don't like me!
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
Any gift is nice, because it shows you are going out of your way to be thoughtful. My preferred small gifts are candles, flowers, and of course anything you would like me to wear or that you want to play with together. I love to try out new toys!
I also have a link on my Twitter to my DeliveryCode wishlist.
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I am a warm, happy, and affectionate person, and I really enjoy spending time with my clients. I want you to feel adored, desired, and appreciated. I'm not focused on just getting you off- I want to make you happy and to give you a memorable experience to cherish for years to come. Some of my clients don't "finish" but still leave happy and come back again and again. You can probably get yourself off. I'm happy to help, and I want to inspire and excite you, but I don't believe that is the measure of a successful encounter. Success, for me, is when I can bring you joy and pleasure, whatever that entails. Maybe you are more interested in pleasuring me... I understand that, because I am also a person who gets a lot of joy out of giving pleasure.
But maybe you just want to lay back, close your eyes, and let me take care of you. This is another of my favorite kinds of sessions. Maybe you're even blindfolded, or tied to the headboard. Maybe I tease you and keep you teetering on the brink until you beg for release... or maybe there is no teasing. Maybe I just make love to you with my lips, my tongue, my fingertips. Maybe you just let me show off my skills... until you can't lay still any longer, and I feel your hand in my hair and you show me exactly how you want it in that moment.
Or maybe you have some specific ideas about what you want to try... I love it when I get to make a client's long-held fantasy into reality. I want to see the excitement on your face when you see me with that toy, or in that outfit, or hear me say the words that you have never dared ask your lover to say to you. I want to make your dreams come true.
These are just a few of my favorite kinds of sessions. I can also be calming, accepting, and easy to talk to. I find it especially meaningful when I can be of genuine help to a client. I am not scared of seeing a new client who is grieving the loss of a loved one or the end of a relationship, or who needs an understanding partner for sexual initiation or re-initiation after a long time going without. I would feel incredibly honored to be part of something so meaningful to you.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
I prefer email, but phone and text are fine too. If you are calling please have the information I will need to screen you available. If you can provide references, have them ready. If you are a member of a screening site, have that information ready.
Please don't ask me about rates. I hate discussing money, which is why I choose to have that information readily available on my own site and other advertising platforms.
If you feel a need to confirm the donation amount, or want a session that you can't find pricing for, please ask me in a respectful way, preferably via email, and without using explicit language or acronyms!
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
Sometimes a little... but usually not if the client was easy to screen and our emails or phone calls were friendly and appropriate.
Getting dressed and primped for a session is when the foreplay starts, for me. I put myself in the mood by rolling on my stockings, picking out the right lingerie, and feeling sexy and attractive. When I'm in my lingerie, all the day-to-day concerns melt away and I am ready to be all yours for an hour or three!
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
Curiosity, empathy, and an open mind. Self respect and a belief that what we do for our clients is positive. If you are deeply conflicted, or believe what we do is wrong, you should transition into a new career as soon as is possible in your circumstances.
A successful escort, to me, must be happy. If you make a lot of money but hate your work, your clients, or yourself, is it really worth it?
Being in the adult industry is the best choice I ever made. I have never regretted it for a minute, even when things were not going very well. I really feel like this is my true calling, and I feel very fortunate to have found my way into it as soon as I did.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
Find an experienced lady to mentor you. Also, ask your first clients for feedback! Read message boards and forums, as much as you can. Invest in yourself.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
I would like to see more of the world, and I plan to follow this path as far as it takes me, as long as it remains fun and positive, something I am happy to be doing. I am also pursuing future goals, in a separate profession. I have big dreams- I want a comfortable life, but I also want to do something meaningful.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
I prefer older clients, and I do not see clients under 30. I do not see men who come across as pushy or entitled in our preliminary conversations. And I do not see clients who want an experience that I do not feel that I can provide well.
I don't offer heavy domination or verbal humiliation, I do some kinky things- toys, foot fetish sessions- but I am sweet about it! I'm just not a dominatrix, and if that's what you want you won't be happy with me.
I love group play, threesomes and orgies, but I do not see pairs or groups of men. I would not feel safe.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
I don't reveal my clients' secrets, sorry!
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
LOL I think I'll keep that one to myself...
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A writer, or an anthropologist
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Yes... it's made me more open minded about the type of men I can be attracted to.
How long have you been working as an escort?
Since my mid 20s
How did you get into the escort business?
I had fantasized about it since I was a teenager. I just didn't know where to start. Then I had a friend who told me she did outcall massages...
What's the best bit about being an escort?
Meeting so many interesting people, and trying so many interesting things. If I was never an escort, I would never have given those things or people a second thought. You don't always know what, or who, you'll like, until you give it (or them) a try!
What don't you like about being an escort?
No-shows, rude people
How often do you work per week?
That varies... I have other things that take up my time. But I usually have a flexible schedule, and am available for appointments at least part of most days.
What are your turn-offs?
Rudeness, bad breath, an unfriendly attitude.