Q:Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
A:Here in LA I have met a few people whom I've formed good connections with, but I cannot say that I have any solid regulars. However, back in MN I have quite a few regulars! Some I have been seeing for years now, and each connection is strong and beautiful in it's own way. Knowing that I have all of these different relationships, it seems a bit odd for me to have any sort of animosity towards my regular(s) who choose to have more than one relationship themselves. In fact, I actually have a regular that I 'share' with some close friends! He has strong, yet different, relationships with the each of us and we are ALL happy! We haven't had a date since my move to LA, but we're always chatting and sharing our stories-- He is my ATF to this day!
Q:If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
A:I have a link to my Amazon Wish List, as well as a Giftful list, upon request. On those pages I have things such as lingerie, perfume, fancy toys, cool books, etc.! However, if you're truly looking to get something I will blush over it's PLANTS. PLANTS. PLANTS. Now I'm not talking about flower bouquets here.. Nor am I saying that flowers aren't pretty, or appreciated!! BUT I'm a girl who LOOOVES green in her home! Pothoses, philodendrons, succulents, sansevierias, etc. So if you want to get me something "out of the ordinary," I would absolutely adore a new addition to my plant family!
Q:How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
A:My ideal form of communication is email when it comes to appointment scheduling! Of course, I am also available by text/call. Verification is required for every client that I date. I like to see verified reviewer profiles, P411, provider references, LinkedIn, etc. Basically I just want to know that you are who you say you are! I also require a deposit for EVERY appointment booked. This is important because it not only ensures your seriousness about seeing me, but it also provides a little help for me in the case of cancellation!
Q:Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
A:Always. I'm not too much of a worry bug, but who doesn't get the little butterfly jitters before meeting someone for the first time!? It's not like preparing for a first date, it IS a first date!
Q:What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A:The oddest request I've ever received was to video chat with a client's parents in order to 'pose' as his girlfriend. In addition to the cultural differences, there was also a massive time difference! I very much enjoyed getting the chance to chat with his parents, and in retrospect I don't find it to be too odd. It's just that that's the only time I ever met the parents of a client hehe.
Q:How long have you been working as an escort?
A:I've been working as a companion for about six years now!!
Q:How did you get into the escort business?
A:When I was in my third year of university I had heard of this dating website where womxn could get paid to go on dates! I was curious enough to take a look, create a profile, and soon I was accepting offers for dates. It wasn't technically escorting, but it was my first toe-dip into the pool! Soon after having a couple first dates I met someone who proposed a SD/SB arrangement with me. I had never had an arrangement before and had no idea how it worked!? I was nervous at first, but I was also really excited to try something new. He was a GREAT guy; Super sweet and caring, understanding of my noobie status, respectful of my boundaries, and spoiled me like none other! We were very happy with our arrangement and we are still friends today. We ended up parting ways because he had found love! He is now happily married for about four to five(?) years now. After having such a wonderful experience I decided to continue on. Since then I have met some pretty amazing people and made wonderful memories! Fast forward a few years, and I get introduced to massaging. I tried it out, and turns out I LOVE IT. I get to touch and be touched, learn more about myself and my body, heighten my self-esteem and body-image, and figure out the different things that make different people tick. I soon realized that I was fostering marvelous relationships with my clients and began to start escorting them outside of our massages. I didn't realize it until I finally said it out loud, but I had been an escort from date one LOL
Q:What don't you like about being an escort?
A:There are times when I feel like a doll. I have been lucky enough, and oh so grateful, to not have had many experiences in this category but it has happened. I am a person just as much as I am a business, and I am a business just as much as I am a person. Money does not equate respect. Money does not equate demand. Money does not equate consent.
Q:How often do you work per week?
A:Well, I get roughly 15-20 date requests per week. If I were to go through with every proposal, I'm sure I'd be working somewhere close to 30 hours, give or take a few. However, I'm pretty picky about the people I spend my time with.. Because of this, I work an average of 5-7 hours per week!
Q:What are your turn-offs?
A:Speculation about whether my photos are me or not!! I am an artist, therefore I am capable of presenting myself in more than one form. I am intensely proud of my work and am MORE than happy to show the original photos during our date. Another one of my biggest turn-offs is when someone interrupts me while I'm speaking, and doesn't make the effort to bring the conversation back to what I was originally going to say. I love conversing and getting to know each other, I am a GREAT listener but I also enjoying sharing my piece. I aim to build friendships with the people I meet, thus I am as genuine as you allow me to be!
