Q: What are your turn-offs?
A: •Being chosen for My looks, not My skills, knowledge, experience, vibes, and personality.
•Approaching Me with “Hi how are you” type of filler-messages, or, worse, with “available now?” type of demonstrations of your lack of reading comprehension, instead of reading My profile and sending Me properly filled instruction for booking My time.
•Calling Me “baby”, “sweetie”, or other stupid, disgusting, infantilising nicknames. It’s strictly “Madam Lira” or “Lira”, not some infantilising bullshit.
•Asking for things that are clearly stated as ones I DO NOT DO – CIM/deepthroating/ swallowing/penetrative sex without condom/licking anyone’s ass/anal to Me/copro/submission to a man; and not demonstrating genuine regret&apology after being pointed out the certain part on My profile, that you missed. Especially if instead of apology you dare to demonstrate your lack of understanding of the concept of CONSENT by attempts to persuade Me into the certain thing. “No” is “No”, not invitation to haggle!!!
•Last minute booking attempts, last minute cancellations, attempts to rush Me to answer you, bargaining for free photos or lower rates, lack of good hygiene, and other types of disrespect towards Me and My time.
•Phone calls, asking for photos, videos, voice notes, asking million questions, stretching out the booking process, or otherwise wasting My time
•Any sort of disparaging or passive-agressive comments about Me or to My direction.
•Vulgarity, rudeness, arrogance, superficiality, and objectification of any kind.
Q: What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A: In My opinion, there are no “strange” requests, only “not appropriate” requests. Requests that scream – “I haven’t read your profile”/“I don’t know how to read the room and behave accordingly”
Types of not appropriate requests:
•Asking for a Femdom session, and then asking for things like cunilingus or sex within that session. Dommes don’t fuck their subs, and subs aren’t worthy of the privilege to see, or, even more ridiculous – touch, their Domme’s private parts.
•Asking Me, a clearly Dominant leaning escort, if I would be up to be submissive with you/suggesting submissive activities, like “can you be handcuffed during the meeting?”.
•Asking Me for anything from the “I DO NOT DO:” list –CIM/deepthroating/ swallowing/penetrative sex without condom/licking anyone’s ass/anal to Me/copro/submission to a man
Q: How often do you work per week?
A: 1-5 times, depending on the week. I am very selective in regards to who I meet, and I meet maximum one person/couple/group per day, or, in exceptional cases, two, if one of them scheduled in advance, and the other one wrote Me the day of, can do only the certain day coz leaves the country the next morning, and managed to interest Me.
Q: How did you get into the escort business?
A: I was on Tinder, trying out dating, and slowly realising that with My level of sexology knowledge, kink education, and emotional intelligence, the people I’m dating are universally benefitting from those relationships more, than I’m benefitting from them, even in early stages of dating.
And I loved people getting something valuable out of meetings with Me, but I was also having a job, as well as already interesting and busy life, so, squeezing in there bunch of dates to (possibly, but unlikely) find someone, meetings with whom would benefit Me as much as meetings with Me benefit them, haven’t seemed like a reasonable way to spend My time and energy, even if I liked to see people grow and learn new things under My guidance. So I decided – why not to free My time by getting rid of the job AND the dating altogether, and instead meet with people for money only, and have them benefit from meetings with Me not for free, but – in exchange for money? That’s how intimacy guidance meetings were born.
Q: How long have you been working as an escort?
A: Around 3 years.
Q: Has being an escort changed your view of men?
A: No
Q: What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A: It was changing a lot, but I always knew I want to work with people.
