Q: What are your turn-offs?
A: Bad hygiene, slobbery kisses, and strangers calling me "Babe."
Q: What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
A: I prefer not to answer. It feels sort of mean and unprofessional on a public platform. All requests are confidential.
Q: What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
A: Yes. Not all business is good business. If they don't consider my safety important and give me a hard time over screening, I quickly dismiss further effort. Also, if they don't read my ad, I may not respond to their initial text. " Are you available?" isn't appropriate when my ads politely request a text that includes their name and the time/day they want to meet.—also, calling me "babe" may cause a restriction. ;D
Q: What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
A: Short term, I plan to buy a new car (Edit: goal accomplished). I’ve established an LLC for a small business that I plan to grow successfully. Along with personal success comes the means and ability to make a difference in community and the world around me. I aspire to make that a major focus.
Q: If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
A: Today, women have so much info and resources on the internet. Take it all at face value. You can find a lot of useful information, but what’s most important is what works for you. Safety is #1, discretion #2. Those 2 rules apply to all. You can’t even exist if you don’t stay safe. You can’t grow if you can’t be trusted. Quality > quantity. Don't run on desperation, and never get too greedy. Both will make you too careless. Get a good grasp on screening methods. Screening your only official safety protocol; it only works if you enforce it 100%. Know your worth and set boundaries. Know your market while designing your business model and setting your rates. Know that there's a big difference between your worth and your rates. Always strive for good reviews, but don’t allow anyone to weaponize them. Remember always to keep your head and your heels high.
Q: What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
A: Hmmm... so many personalities make up this industry. At the core, every escort must live by the old saying, “To thine own self be true.” You never want to compromise yourself. You never want to lose the personality traits and good qualities make you YOU. What you'll need, if you don't already have them, is discernment, creativity, marketing skills, willpower, discipline, the ability to manage your money, and very thick skin.
Q: Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
A: Yes.
Q: How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
A: Initial contact should be very simple and basic. I always prefer a direct text that includes their name and a specific date and time for the inquiry. “Hello, this is __. I am inquiring to see if you have an opening on _, _ _ at _:_?” That’s the type of dialogue I recommend because it’s simple, discrete, and generic yet specific, signaling to me that this is a person whose intention is to make plans, given that they’ve suggested a specific date and time to meet. Without that vital piece ofinformation, I can be of no service. Plus, I always aim to work around my client’s schedule. So, before reaching out, it stands to reason that one should be prepared to book an appointment.
Next, screening is always required once we’ve aligned our schedules. Once I’ve verified and determined, to the best of my ability, a gentleman is safe to see, an appointment can be confirmed. Then we focus strictly on the fun stuff and look forward to meeting face to face.
Q: What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
A: I think we all have something unique that we bring to the table. Variety is the spice of life. Fortunately, there are men who enjoy a little maturity in a woman, especially when combined with advanced skills. Some say they like that I don't have tattoos. There's also a demographic dedicated to natural breasts, which, in my case, means they particularly enjoy them small and perky. It takes all kinds. I'm often told I'm easy to connect and feel comfortable with once face-to-face. More than a couple of times following a first encounter, I've been told it was like reuniting with a "long lost girlfriend." I liked hearing that and knowing I was able to create a memorable experience for them.
Q: If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
A: The question says "make," which reminds me of years ago when I was gifted a tastefully painted portrait of myself in lingerie by a client. That was incredibly special, I thought, but I appreciate any time I receive a gift. I love chocolate, flowers, and, of course, lingerie, but maybe in the form of a gift card because it needs to be tried on first. I have a weakness for boots and things that smell good. My favorite fragrances currently are Miss Dior and Paradoxe by Prada. I collect vinyl records and designer handbags. However, at this time, if a man were compelled to offer such generosity and REALLY wants to excite me, I'd rather he contribute to my new car fund or to one of three worthy causes that are closest to my heart vs. buying me that new Versace bag I've had my eye on. I do have a practical side, after all! ;)
Q: How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
A: Literally, all they need to do is comply with screening and my simple methods. My ads and website give very clear and simple guidelines that serve the best interests of both myself and potential client. Reading the info provided, being respectful, and acting as any gentleman should goes a long way with me and guarantees we'll both get the maximum enjoyment out of a truly authentic and unique experience.
Q: How often do you work per week?
A: Available seven days/nights a week (schedule pending). I work around my client's schedule. To do that, I have to be available and flexible. I always find time for self-care in the process, of course.
Q: Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
A: Yes, I have regular clients with whom I've formed a special bond. Do I feel "cheated" if/when they see other providers"? No. That would be ridiculous. In fact, I am always willing to be a reference for the clients I like, both as a favor to them and because it contributes to the overall safety of SWers. I just ask that they give me a heads-up so it's easy for the other provider and me. I'll admit, though, I do love it when they already know they'll see me again before we even part the first time. Those are my faves since sessions get better and better the more comfortable and acquainted we are. At the same time, I know the whole point is variety for some. As long as they treat me & others well, I'll help them on their journey.
Q: How did you get into the escort business?
A: Oh, that’s a story I’ll save for when we get to know each other a bit. Lol!
Q: What's the best bit about being an escort?
A: Freedom. The gift of allocating my time allows me to learn and explore my creative outlets, ways I can impact the world and my community, and other opportunities to better my future. The best part about escorting in practice is connecting with interesting, fun people I appreciate and enjoy on an intimate level with no strings. If I had to choose one word to describe how I view my practice, it would be "therapeutic."
Q: What don't you like about being an escort?
A: Yikes. Awkward question…. Risk. Stigma. The general consensus is that you can't have depth and be a good person if you're an escort. Perhaps I'm biased, but I beg to differ. I've discovered that people can become viciously evil when blinded by ignorance. They act superior when, in reality, they feel threatened. It's controversial, and people don't comprehend that more and more there's a need and a purpose for us in today's society.
Q: How long have you been working as an escort?
A: I escorted for six years before taking a 10-year hiatus. October marked two years that I've been back at it. So, eight years total, but when I first started, providers were just beginning to tip-toe onto the web. We did it but didn't know if it would be worth the risk at first, or at least that's how I felt about it. Lol. Talk about a game-changer! Fast forward to now. Seeing and learning how the industry has evolved upon re-entering has also been fascinating.
Q: Has being an escort changed your view of men?
A: No. I do my best to create or enter into safe spaces and judgment-free zones. People can suck anywhere at any time. I knew a John who believed he stood on higher moral ground than the women he spent time with. I've also seen a provider post on Xwitter all about how SW has ruined her ability to ever trust a man. I'm pretty sure their names were Pot and Kettle, but I could be mistaken.
Q: What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A: A country music singer or a broadcast journalist
Q: Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
A: Maybe sometime.;)
