Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I do have regulars that I have great bonds with, but I would never be upset if they saw a different girl. That is the best part about seeing escorts for men...the variety. To see the same escort each time would be like renting a car every weekend and always getting the same Cadillac. Yes, Cadillacs are nice, but sometimes you want a Mustang, other times you want a Jeep. It is fun to try out different types.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
I refer them to my website and tell them to read it completely so they don’t make any major “no no’s”. Then once we are together, I just tell them to relax. I am a fairly easy going, approachable person. So most people feel comfortable with me. If they are still nervous, a nice massage and/or glass of wine or cocktail always does the trick.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
I would be completely taken away if a client made me a floral arrangement from flowers out of his own flower gardens. I have a wishlist on my website. I am a shoe addict. Christian Louboutins are my favorite. I also love designer handbags and am dieing to get an Alexander McQueen clutch. It is expensive to be a woman, even more so when escorting, so gift cards to Sephora, Ulta, or my favorite clothing stores are also greatly appreciated. And of course, you can never go wrong with jewelry
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
What makes me notable is my level of class, sophistication, my intelligence and education, as well as my level of professionalism . I have a lot going for me. I am not just an escort. I also hold a professional, very highly respected career. For these reasons I can blend into any social situation and will fit in perfectly because I am not trying to pretend to be something I am not; I am a part of the elite social class. I don’t have to tell you how beautiful I am, my pictures speak for theirselves, and I am always told my pictures do not do me justice. The fact that I lead this secret life is a testimony to the “wild and fun” part of me. However, I know the appropriate time to let the “wild and naughty” girl to come out and play.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
Screening is always required!! The perfect client will read each page of my website. They will then email me, or use the contact form to submit complete screening information and date/time information for appointment, and details such as in-call or out-call, duration, etc.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
It is exactly like preparing for a first date and I am always a little nervous, but that is part of what makes it so fun and exciting
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
Fun, outgoing, energetic, common sense, self discipline, knows their self very well, enjoys dressing up and doing their hair and make up, doesn’t have substance abuse issues, enjoys the company of men
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
I would first suggest they do their research. Read everything you can about escorting and about how to become one. Then do soul searching to make sure you are cut out for it, cause not everyone is.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
I want to travel more, especially internationally. I want to grow my financial independence through investing and real estate. I would like to be able to give my time to support organizations that support sex workers, such as SWOP, as well as volunteer my time to different charities. There just isn’t enough time in the day. I would like to be able to use the money I receive from escorting to invest and allow me to cut down my hours at my professional job so that I have more time for volunteer work and to maintain the delicate work-life-balance.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
I will not meet a client that tries to remain anonymous and withhold information regarding their identity. Obviously, I wouldn’t meet a client that has been blacklisted for any bad behaviors or could be dangerous. I do not agree to last minute bookings. All information I request for screening has to be submitted to my satisfaction, or I will not meet with you.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
I can’t say that I have had any completely off the wall, strange requests at this time.
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
Out of respect for the other individuals privacy, I keep all encounters between myself and the other individual
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
I wanted to be a psychologist, which lends its way into escorting. Both jobs require advanced listening skills, and communication skills, to be empathetic at times, be able to read people and their body language as well as being aware of my own nonverbal communication, to be trustworthy and discreet, keep secrets, and of course, we both charge for our time by the our.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Not really, but it has highlighted both the how sweet and wonderful men can be, as well as how awful others can be, unfortunately. However, because I am selective in whom I spend my time with, and because of my mandatory screening, 98% of the men I have seen have been wonderful. Almost all unpleasant experiences have been with men via electronic communication that did not pass the screening process.
How long have you been working as an escort?
Since April 2018
How did you get into the escort business?
I got into the escort business by choice due to my decision to not engage in traditional romantic relationships or dating anytime in the near future. However, I enjoy the company of distinguished, successful, respectful, generous, kind men. Escorting provides me with the ability to engage in NSA encounters with like minded individuals. I enjoy meeting new and interesting people and bringing excitement and happiness into their lives.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
The best part of escorting is the excitement of the unknown and delight when you meet someone for the first time that you have amazing chemistry with.
What don't you like about being an escort?
The politics- criminalization of consenting adults doing what they want to do behind closed doors and worrying about law enforcement entrapment and misconstruing something perfecting legal, selling my time, for something else, just to get a bust because it is the hot subject st the time and their department got extra funds.
How often do you work per week?
I have a full time professional job that I work alternating 4 days per week. I provide pre-booked companionship services on my free time 3 afternoons and 5 evenings per week.
What are your turn-offs?