Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I had a list of loyal clients before Backpage shut down and I rarely posed ads anymore especially when I lived in OC but since Fosta and the Backpage closing I have since moved to the Antelope Valley because I have people to stay with for free but I haven't really obtained regulars here. The site I post on (avescortsboard) has a verification process that pretty much discourages repeat business. You have to see a bunch of different escorts (and clients for us) to get verified and move up in levels. By the time the client has seen the required number of girls to move up to verified level 5, years pass so he has usually forgotten about me. Actually I have only been here for 4 months so I haven't really had time to really accrue regulars though I have had some repeat business. The business for me out here is slow anyway. Hopefully though now that I am once again back on escort-ads.com and am a SuperVIP, soon to have a premium banner ad provided I get some business from the Super Vip ad and I'm verified, business should be picking up and I'll get my regulars. I would only feel cheated if they went about it sneaky and saw another girl but if they came to me and said they would like to see what else is out there or if they can't see me and can't wait, I would give my blessing. I know they will be back. I am not every man's cup of tea but I know once someone spends time with me, they are usually hooked!
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
I am very good with the newbies. I have a knack for making my first-time clients feel really comfortable within the first few moments of contact on the phone and in person. Most first-timers are so scared they really don't say a bunch of stupid shit on the phone but sometimes they do and they come off sounding like cops but I'm very patient and I give them a chance or two after explaining what I will and won't discuss on first contact. When we actually meet, they don't usually know what to expect so they are pretty submissive and they let me lead which is what I want. My suggestions are to do your research on how to talk to escorts on the phone. We are just people like you. We want to be respected and treated like a lady. Escorting is our job, not who we are. Also, we set our prices according to our level of experience, what we offer, how much we have to fork out for each date so our expenses so it's really insulting and bad form to negotiate with escorts about their rates. If you can't afford one of us, consider finding someone you can afford or try saving up but just because you can only pay $50 doesn't mean you should offer that especially if you know the escort charges $150. That's insulting. Finally, if you go in with no expectations and just let yourself enjoy your time with your escort, your experience can be and most likely will be out of this world! But if you go in thinking that you are going to direct how the date will go regardless of what your escort has planned, you will be very disappointed and depending on how you go about voicing that you may even get robbed/jacked in the process. At the very least you will get kicked out without a refund. Take a shower and brush your teeth right before your date, not in the morning and your date is that evening! Use deodorant, don't use cologne or aftershave and if you do, use it very sparingly. Don't smoke, drink alcohol or eat offensive foods right before your date. Use common sense and be respectful. Treat the escort as if you had asked her out on a date and she could possibly reject you. Don't send photos of your penis without asking and don't try to engage the escort in phone sex or sexting or try to get her to admit to illegal activity on the phone prior to meeting for the first time. Allow your escort to screen you. Remember she is meeting a strange man alone in either her apartment or hotel room or worse on your territory and that is both scary and potentially dangerous for a woman. So why wouldn't you ease her mind? It seems to me that if you don't allow an escort to screen you, you obviously have something to hide and have plans to harm her.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
I love orchids and lilies, especially Stargazer Lilies, anything from Victoria Secret Pink collection, gift certificate to DickBlick Art store. My favorite perfume is Victoria Secret Heavenly and Burberry Classic for Women. I love stripper heels, thigh high stockings, little skirts, G strings, anything with rhinestones in it, Pino Noir, red moscato or red rose champagne with Moet & Chandon Rose being my top choice. I love candy and I collect boxes, the more bling the better. But number one gift would be a gift certificate to DickBlick.com or from the store Blick Art Materials. There are 2 in Santa Monica, 3 in LA, 1 in Pasadena and 1 in Fullerton I believe.
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I have had many providers come to me over the years asking me to help them post ads and make money. I guess what has always made me stand out is my work ethic, my ability to make money, to get the best clients--the best looking and the best acting and keep them. I always tell anyone who asks that I get the desirable clients because of how I come across on the phone or text. If you let them disrespect you on the phone, how are they going to respect you in person? I don't allow explicit talk, no phone sex or sexting unpaid for and that makes a huge difference. My service is unique because I do nuru massage and I actually do the massage, it's not just a front. I am also honest about my services. I don't lie to get a client to come over. I am a woman of my word and I have integrity. That goes a long way in this business. My favorite is nuru massage with authentic nuru gel and I love being a dominatrix. I get to be super bossy to guys and get paid for it! Who wouldn't love that? I am very good at people in general. I am good, quick and accurate at reading people. Being an empath helps a lot with that.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
I prefer the client to make an appointment directly on my website. I have online booking and fill out a secure booking form. I require light screening, i.e. social media url or 2 recent references or a third party verification site.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
You know, I really don't. I am confident that they will like me and I know if I don't like their vibe or if there is anything "off" about them upon first meet, I have no problem at all kicking them out so there is nothing for me to be nervous about. I never had a first date so I wouldn't know what that is like.
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
Like I said one needs to have thick skin. You cannot be sensitive and make it in this business. Having a good head on your shoulders is helpful. One should be confident and assertive otherwise she will get ran over.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
I would say do some deep soul searching first and make sure they are cut out for this type of work. It isn't easy. If you care too much about what other people think, this probably isn't the business for you. You have to have very thick skin. Then I would say make a list of what you will and will not do, do your research on how much other girls in your area are charging (I texted and emailed a bunch of girls for rates) and then decide how much you will charge but please please do not seriously undervalue yourself. It shows lack of self respect and it messes up the game for the rest of us. Then I would find a place with a lot of traffic and post your ad there. You have to read other people's ads and see what kind of girls post there. You don't want a site that's real trashy and you don't want a site where the girls are all charging $100 an hour if you are going to charge $300. You will never get any business. The other girls on the site reflect you as well. I would also say do your research on the site, see how long they have been in business, speak to other escorts that post there especially if they are charging for the ads. You don't want a fly-by-night company that is going to take your money and be gone the next day never running your ad. There are a lot of scam sites out there so watch out. Also watch what you post in your ad. You don't want to say anything that will get you in trouble. In today's climate in this industry, I would be wary of any site that encourages you to post whatever you want on your ad. It may be inconvenient that you can't post certain kinds of photos or that you have to be careful of the words you choose for your ad but it will keep you out of trouble and you will get a better clientele because of it. Also give your ads a couple of weeks at the beginning. The clients want to be sure you're not a cop doing a sting so you may not get any calls for the first couple of weeks. That's ok. Just keep posting. Once they see your ads consistently, they will call.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
I am an artist with a natural gift for drawing portraits. My dream is to see my art in a gallery one day and to sell a couple of pieces. That one is not so far off so short term would be to sell one piece and long term would be to have my own art show. My goal is to ask for and receive $600+ an hour so I can cut down the amount of time I put into escorting and redirect that time into my art.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
I will not meet anyone who does not respect my wishes for what I will and will not discuss on the phone nor will I meet anyone who is very pushy trying to get me to do or say something I do not feel comfortable doing or saying. I feel like if they are that disrespectful at the beginning before we even meet, it will only be worse when we meet and I could be put in a dangerous situation. I have no restrictions as far as race, religion or socioeconomic status and in fact I even saw a homeless gentleman though I did not know he was homeless until he was already in my room and had paid me. I made him shower twice, then I chastised him for not being honest with me about his homelessness and ended up giving him back his money because I wanted the Classic Schwinn he came over in ;)
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
Where to start? I have had some doozies but the strangest thing is probably the gentleman who wanted to follow me around for a day feeding me bowel-inducing foods so he could collect my stool in a plastic bag and eat it. That never transpired and I don't know if I could have gone through with it but I believe that was the weirdest. It's a tie between that one and the one who wanted to let loose a dozen or 2 cockroaches at my feet and have me step on them screaming at the top of my lungs like I was scared. I quickly blocked him because I am terrified of roaches and just the thought of doing that creeps me out!
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
I didn't get paid the first time. He gave me his debit card to hold until he could get cash in the morning and I went through with the date. Then he had me wait outside while he supposedly went in to get money but he never came out. In fact, he didn't even live there. He must have slipped out the back. It turned out the debit card wasn't a debit card at all but a prepaid card with no money on it. I never made that mistake again.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Most definitely! I find that many men are very ignorant, childish and downright mean! I never saw that before.
How long have you been working as an escort?
How did you get into the escort business?
My friend had been doing it. I found myself in a bad financial jam and learned I could make good money. I didn't realize I would love it so much.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
Working for myself, being my own boss, meeting new people daily and lots of handsome men and you can't beat the money! Basically I get treated like a movie star, a celebrity. If you put my name in Google (Jazzmin Jayde), you will see I AM like a celebrity!
What don't you like about being an escort?
The negative stigmata that surrounds it, as well as the misconceptions, the judgement and being treated as if there is something wrong with me mentally or as if I am stupid because I do this.
How often do you work per week?
I work every day. Even when I'm not seeing clients, I am working preparing for upcoming dates or posting ads or working on my website to generate new clients. So in reality I work all day every day. Before Backpage shut down I was seeing 3-7 clients per day 7 days a week.
What are your turn-offs?
Aggressive behavior, bad breath, bad hygiene, not keeping your word, negativity.