Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I do have regulars, fellas that I've seen more than once. I am pretty good at keeping myself in check regarding my true feelings towards them. If I didn't, my heart would've been broken so many times.
I do not get mad, a tiny bit green with envy but never mad if a client goes elsewhere. They usually come back to me comparing the other gal to me and how this or that was not up to par. I truly strive to give my guys a memorable experience every time they see me.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
I'm so new that this is a tough one. I just generally try to make my fellas get comfortable and relaxed. I don't care for the client that comes in all Mr know it all have the t-shirt thinking he's going to run the show. I run the show and unless otherwise arranged expect to be the boss.
My biggest turn on is pleasuring someone, watching them have an orgasm because of what I did or we did is just amazing to me.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
Flowers, perfume (Miss Dior), chocolate and caramel. I love it when someone buys me lingerie so then I can wear it for them. I love anything girlie, anything pinup related or anything to do with Renaissance England especially the Tudor dynasty.
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I think the unique thing about me is that I'm almost 50, very curvy and truly love what I do.
My favorite is my VIP sessions. You'll have to visit my website to know what I mean.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
Screening is required to set an appointment and also to be able to read my reviews on my website.
As far as screening here's what I need:
Date and time requested-
And just ONE of the following :
-One (or two preferably) referrals from your last provider. I need their email or phone number and your email/phone number that you used to communicate with them.
-OR your p411 handle.
-OR a copy of your ID and a link to either your Facebook or LinkedIn profile page (or other major social media site.)
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
Not really. I'm pretty outgoing.
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
This might seem like an obvious one but they need to be sexy, have sex appeal and really enjoy meeting new people.
I would suggest a timeline to get out of the business, to save money so they can establish and reach some personal goals- buy a house, car, go back to school etc... And to have fun with it.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
To research the industry, to network with other gals and to go into it with eyes wide open.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
I have a 5 year plan that I'm one year into. At the end of those 5 years I will have my master's degree and plan to utilize it in Scotland.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
Besides the time wasters, I really really dislike the negotiators that try to haggle my rates. I won't see someone once they try to discount me without my pushbutton permission. My rates are industry standard and set where they're at to weed most of the hagglers out.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
To have a threesome with me, him and his wife. They both wanted to be submissive and rough and tumble them. They offered drugs, dinner out (and us two ladies were to wear little remote control vibrating undies to dinner and he would zap is at his will.) They both wanted to be humiliated and playfully forced to do whatever. It never came to fruition, they cancelled 3x on me then called me again forgetting that he'd already put me though the scam. Hilarious.
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
I dabbled with it for a couple months back in 2006 while I was job hunting. I honestly don't remember my first time but I do remember my first sensual massage. I can't stop laughing because I had no idea what to do and the fella was really pushy and a little rude so I was a little off it but after a while I figured out what and when to do this or that, it became second nature.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A movie star, a lawyer and a good witch like Glenda from the Wizard of Oz.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Yes, I like them more. Because of my divorce and a short string of Mr. Wrongs I was getting pretty jaded. Now that I work so closely with all these men when they're at their most vulnerable I've come to appreciate men so much more.
How long have you been working as an escort?
This past April was one year.
How did you get into the escort business?
I got laid off just over a year ago and had no prospects in line. My best friend was escorting in Denver and was loving it and I had a friend here in Minnesota that was doing sensual massage but hated it. But I knew I'd love it so after about a month of pestering her she connected me with some of her friends and the rest is now history. I never in a million years thought that I'd enjoy this and be so successful. There's just something about just meeting someone and connecting to them by touch. It's an amazing feeling and really floats my boat.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
Meeting all of the interesting fellas. From construction workers, students and a few janitors to doctors, lawyers and politicians. I try to find something sexy about each and every one. I get to fall in love for an hour at a time everyday, how wonderful is that?
What don't you like about being an escort?
Time wasters . The fellas that have no intention of ever booking but have to have my attention or they threaten to not book. I'm finally getting better at vetting them out. But every once in a while I still get sucked in.
How often do you work per week?
6 sometimes 7 days per week.
What are your turn-offs?
Smelly junk, nasty feet, bad sports, mustard, intolerance and discrimination against anyone, stealing and lying