Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
I absolutely have a list of regular clients that I have a special bond with. I would not at all feel cheated if they saw another girl, though. I've happily provided references for these gentleman and I've raved about what amazing people they are to each of the girls who inquired about them. If they decided to stop seeing me altogether and not stay in touch anymore, I'd be sad to lose our friendship, but I'd be understanding that life goes on and people change.
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
I like it when a first-timer client is up front about it. I try to make them feel as welcome and warmed up as possible so it's easier for them to be themselves. I like to remind them that the appointment is all about the journey and it's o.k. if certain things don't happen during the first session. If all things went well and they followed protocol, I let them know that I'm happy to act as a reference for someone else if they want to give it another go elsewhere. I don't get personally offended if they don't want to see me again, and I'm always happy to help them on their journey - whatever it may be.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
My favorite gifts are gift certificates for shopping or the spa and books. I love that both of these types of gifts help me buy time for myself. I'm not always into material things with shopping, but it's still nice to be treated to some retail therapy now and then!
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
I think what makes me notable among other providers is that I'm down to earth and take time to build relationships with my clients. I believe I'm good at becoming a friend and confidant, not just a fun recreational partner. As much as I love the girlfriend experience, I'm versatile and can go for more corporeal interactions as well and enjoy it just as much!
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
My eyes light up when I receive an email with the following info:
Hi Khloe - My name is John Doe and I'd like to schedule a date with you for incall on MM/DD for xx hours starting at x:xx o'clock. My references are "Reference 1 (email address & website)" and "Reference 2 (email address & website). I read your website and I'm aware of your deposit policy. Hope to hear from you soon!
Yes, screening is always required. When a suitor demonstrates that they're willing to comply with my screening and deposit policy, I feel like it establishes trust and makes me feel more confident that we will be a good match. If someone tries to get out of some piece of the process whether it be the references, employment verification info, or the deposit, I get a bad feeling that I sometimes can't shake about them.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
I always get nervous before meeting a client because it IS preparing for a first date. I still get nervous before I meet clients I've know for months!
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
To be successful, I'd say that the most effective personality traits include being genuine, kind, and vivacious... to name a few.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
I would recommend that they do as much research as possible and that they ask themselves the following questions:
1. Do I genuinely enjoy intimacy (physically, emotionally, and mentally)?
2. Am I capable of running my own business? Of managing my finances well?
3. Can I handle meeting someone new and providing them with an amazing experience?
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
My future goal is to continue to work in a female dominated field, but also to make strides in the way that women are perceived, understood, and empowered. I can't go into details specifically how I will do that at the moment, but my plan exists and is actionable!
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
I refuse to meet clients who are uncooperative with screening/those who fail to pass screening or who refuse to comply with my deposit policy.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
I don't think I can write that here :)
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
My first escort job was short and sweet. The interactions that followed with this first client were more or less a crash course in dealing with someone who wanted to waste any time and get as much out of me as they could. I'm glad it happened in the beginning because I learned how to respect my own time and that of my clients.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
I wanted to be a writer or a singer when I was growing up.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
Yes, escorting has changed my view of men - for the better! I'm more sympathetic towards the male perspective, but I've also gained insight into theirs which can be frightening or reassuring depending on the topic.
How long have you been working as an escort?
For one year in January 2019!
How did you get into the escort business?
I've always been an empath and a people pleaser, so I was really drawn to working in a field that combines emotional and physical dimensions with immediate gratification for both parties.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
Spending time with someone one-on-one, learning how to understand their language and their needs, seeing them happy and satisfied.
What don't you like about being an escort?
Occasionally there are individuals who do not respect my time the same way that I respect theirs. I try to avoid people like this in the first place, but sometimes they creep in.
How often do you work per week?
I work 1-3 times per week
What are your turn-offs?
Generally, I'm turned off by people who don't see women as multi-faceted beings. Disrespect for my time during the screening/emailing process is also up there.