Do you have a list of clients that you see regularly that you have formed a special bond with? Would you feel 'cheated' if they saw another girl like how hairdressers get mad at you if you get your hair cut somewhere else?
Yes, I do have some excellent regulars. I'm not the jealous type though and some of my clients see me as well as different providers who fill different niches. If a regular chose to stop seeing me to see another provider, I'd be a bit sad, obviously, but it's such a personal thing. I could never judge or resent them, though I'd prefer if they saw us both (at the same time, even).
How do you handle first-timers or those who have limited experience with escort services? What are your suggestions to such clients to make your encounter the most enjoyable?
Nothing really distinguishes my first-timers from people who have swathes of experience with escorts. If you get too in your head about seeing me as 'fake' in some way or 'just' a service, then it will not be as good an experience for either of us as if you approach me as a genuine girl with a high sex drive who is also making a living. I'm not going to be in any way cold or clinical or aloof just because of the donation. It's still fun, it's still sex, and I'm still me. Try to relax and remember we're both just people. Communication and respect is key.
If a client decided to make you a present, what would you be happy to receive? What is your wish-list (maybe flowers, lingerie, parfume, music albums, books etc.)?
I would love to receive any gift! I love most kinds of flowers and lingerie would be wonderful - I have my eye on pretty much the entire Playful Promises Curve range. I am a bit addicted to bath and body products, Lush especially but you couldn't go wrong with a massage bar, a bath bomb, some body butter or anything like that, and maybe we could try it out together.
What makes you notable among other providers? What exactly, you believe, you're good at? What makes your service unique? What is your favorite kind of service?
There are very few BBW escorts in Glasgow, and my body type is definitely unique, as I am full-figured but shapely with huge, firm breasts, a smaller waist, an incredibly round ass and very long legs. If I say it myself, my GFE is really excellent. I'm clever and well-spoken but very sweet-natured and easy to get along with, and the feedback as to the ins and outs of my offering is always glowing. I am a very sexual person and I think it shows.
How do you prefer a client to make an appointment? What information is important for you? Is screening required before the appointment?
I like an introductory message to tell me what a client is looking for, so the length of appointment, roughly when and any relevant preferences as to the service. A tiny introduction as far as age and ethnicity is helpful, purely because some people give a certain vibe through text that winds up not matching who they are and I have a little 'oh!' moment. Texting or messaging is slightly preferred to phone calls as I may not always be able to answer, but other than for that reason, a polite and to-the-point phone call is fine too.
Do you ever get nervous before meeting a client? Is it kind of like preparing for a first date?
I'm pretty confident in general, but there's always an element of wondering exactly who you'll be meeting and how things will go. It's more curiosity than nerves, I'd say.
What sort of personality qualities does someone need to possess to be a successful escort?
You need to be confident and able to assert yourself. You need to be quite tech-savvy. You need to be friendly, fairly outgoing and able to relate to different types of people. You must have a strong sense of your own sexuality and sensuality, and not be too shy to take an active role and show your enjoyment.
If someone wished to become an escort, how would you recommend they go about it?
Do a lot of research and self-examination.
What are your dreams, future goals and aspirations? Short and long term?
In the short term, I have a few small debts I'm working on clearing, some little home improvements projects in mind, and a goal to get my ass outdoors and out hiking around 100 times more often than I have been of late. I'm reasonably happy for my working life to keep ticking on as it is for the minute, though I do have long-term goals involving working in social care and pursuing more study for what I hope will be my eventual career path.
What types of clients do you deny to meet? Are there any restrictions?
I prefer to only meet people who speak fluent English. I won't meet anyone who is pushy and impatient when enquiring, expecting me to drop everything to accommodate them or asking for special treatment and services I don't offer. I won't meet anyone who withholds their number when calling.
What is the strangest request you have ever had from a client?
Recently someone asked if I would wear brown nylons and tie him up in a barn for several days. He added that he also wanted to be tied to the back of a 4x4 and dragged around a field. He wanted this despite the fact I don't know how to drive. I agreed to it all just to see where it would go, and unsurprisingly he fell silent.
Can you tell us a bit about your first escort job?
My first ever client had a thing about food and mess. The booking involved cornflakes, strawberry yoghurt and cider all over me, among other things. My first booking when I really began escorting last year was fun, straightforward GFE, as I'm a little older, much wiser and have to confess I don't like food sex.
What did you want to be when you were growing up?
A psychiatrist! I decided a career in medicine itself wasn't for me, and studied psychology in the end with a view of pursuing a career as a speech and language practitioner in the future, particularly for young people with additional support needs.
Has being an escort changed your view of men?
How long have you been working as an escort?
I dipped my toe in the water about five years ago but have been working regularly for slightly over a year.
How did you get into the escort business?
In my late teens, an older gentleman I was seeing for fun offered a generous donation if I fulfilled a specific fantasy for him. It opened my eyes to the possibilities, though it wasn't until my twenties that I really took the plunge.
What's the best bit about being an escort?
99% of the time the work is enjoyable and comes very naturally. I get to meet fun, interesting people and no two bookings are alike. Being able to choose my own balance between work and reward eliminates a major source of stress in modern life.
What don't you like about being an escort?
In any setting, in any job, there will be people who choose to ignore the rules and bring disrespect to your door. The difficulty with escorting is that you can't exactly go to HR with any issues. Thankfully, the overwhelming majority of people I meet are kind, respectful and fun.
How often do you work per week?
I tend towards low volume, high quality but I go by demand rather than working set days and hours. I'm freelance in my 'normal' job so I set my own hours and my availability is very flexible.
What are your turn-offs?
Nothing kills the mood quicker than being treated like a blow-up doll. We will have so much more fun together if there's mutual respect.