Escort Terms, Sex Definitions And Abbreviations In Escort Ads

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Escort Terms, Sex Definitions And Abbreviations In Escort Ads

Sex vaginal - The most common form of sex. This type of sex is accomplished when a man thrusts his penis in and out of a woman's vagina from the front or from behind.

Handjob - When a penis is held by another person's hand and stroked for pleasure.

Deep throating - When a girl is giving a guy a blowjob and the guy puts most of his penis into the girls mouth. The dick touches the throat, and often makes girls gag.

Cum on face - A cum on face is a sexual activity in which a man ejaculates semen into the face of one or more sexual partners.

Anti-stress Massage - This massage relaxes the muscles and especially the nervous system. It is performed with slow and rhythmic strokes to the head, neck, back and back of the legs. Special anti-stress massage oils help remove all the tension in your body.

Strap-ons - A strap on is an artificial phallic appendage, or dildo, that can be strapped on to emulate the male penis. A strap on is attached with a belt or harness and is designed to sit in a similar position as the male penis. Strap ons are typically worn by women, but they can also be used by men who experience impotence or erectile dysfunction and can be used in the same manner as the penis for sexual activity. For the wearer's partner, sex with a strap on closely mirrors sex with a penis.

Fisting anal - Anal fisting is a sexual practice in which one partner inserts a hand into the other's anus. Despite the term's name, the hand is not actually in a fist position. Instead, the fingers are extended and overlapping. This is a more advanced technique used in anal play.

Fetish - A form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

French Kissing - You and your partner putting your tongue in each others mouth and moving it around with your lips locked.

GFE - A girlfriend experience (GFE) is a commercial experience that blurs the boundaries between a financial transaction and a romantic relationship.

Sex anal - Anal sex means penis-in-anus (butt) intercourse. Some people enjoy anal sex, and some people don't like it at all. Anal sex can hurt if you're not relaxed and don't use lubricant. The anus doesn't make it’s own lubrication like the vagina does, so using lube helps the penis (or a sex toy) go in the anus easier and keeps the condom from breaking. Don't use anything with oil in it, like Vaseline, lotion, or baby oil. Oil-based lubes can weaken a condom and make it more likely to break. You can get safe lubricants (water or silicone based) in the condom aisle at drug and grocery stores.

PSE - Porn Star Experience. A term used to describe a sexual encouter where the partner exibited certain porn-like characteristics. Usually including such things as: Talking Dirty,CIM (cum in mouth), a general knowledge of sexual positions and willingness to sexually please.

Cunnilingus - Cunnilingus is oral sex which involves someone using their mouth to stimulate a woman's genitals.

Cum in mouth - A man can ejaculate in a woman's mouth by pulling out during intercourse, through oral sex, or during a hand job. Cumming in a woman's mouth is a fairly common sex act that is often portrayed in pornography. Men typically enjoy seeing women play with and swallow the cum after ejaculation, especially if the woman seems to enjoy the taste. Cum in mouth is considered a safe sexual practice when it comes to pregnancy, but not for STIs, as cum can transmit them through the soft tissues in the mouth. Cumming in a woman's mouth can also seem dirty or disgusting to some women which is why many men enjoy watching pornography with that act or hire sex workers to swallow their semen.

Thai Massage - Thai massage, also known as Nuad Bo-Rarn in its traditional form, is a type of Oriental bodywork therapy that is based on the treatment of the human body, mind, and spirit. The therapy includes treating the electromagnetic or energetic field which surrounds, infuses and brings the body to life through pressure and/or manipulative massage.

Ass licking - Obviously when you lick someone's ass.

Fisting vaginal - Vaginal fisting involves inserting one's whole hand, or fist, into the vagina. The sensation during this practice is different for everyone, but it's generally described as a feeling of pleasurable fullness. Despite the intense pleasure that fisting can produce, couples interested in this practice should proceed with caution as it can cause damage to delicate parts.

Games - As children we often play games like Doctor and Nurse as an ordinary part of sexual exploration. As adults, many partners continue to enjoy sex games as a part of foreplay. Some sex games are variations on popular games, such as strip poker and strip pong. In these games, participants remove an item of clothing at various intervals, such as when they lose a hand or when their competitor makes a shot. Other games can also become sex games if the winner is promised a sensual massage or some other sexual treat in reward for winning. Commercial sex games encourage participants to follow sensual directions when they choose a card or roll a pair of dice. While these sex games are typically played in private, some sex games may be played in public spaces. For example, in the popular role-playing game Strangers for a Day, real-life couples pretend to be strangers making a new connection in a public place, such as a bar or hotel lobby. Other role-playing scenarios can also be considered types of sex games. Sex games are designed to build sexual tension by encouraging participants to take their time with foreplay and delay gratification. Playing sex games is a great way for couples to add variety to their sex lives, expand their sexual repertoire, and get participants talking about their turn-ons and turn-offs. 

Trampling - Standing or walking on one's body, esp. face and sexual organs as part of an extreme foot fetish.

Rimming Giving - Rimming is the act of sexually stimulating someone’s anus by licking or sucking it.It is popular among same-sex male couples but is practiced by people of all sexual orientations and genders.

BDSM - Once upon a time this was all called Sadomasochism (SM, S/M or S&M) and the players were all deemed very bad, sick, perverted people. We were just people though, as horny as everyone is, with a little kink to make us special. But some of us didn't want to be called sick, bad perverts and these people invented names like Dominance and Submission (D&S, DS or D/s), Love Bondage (Love Bondage) and Bondage and Discipline (B&D) to make themselves and the pleasure police think that what they did was different from what those sad, twisted, nasty old sadomasochists did, no no! Then we all got online with our personal computers (well, a lot of us did) and began doing what people do best when they're not having sex: argue. For months arguments about labels for our kinks clogged up the computer networks. Finally, the term BDSM was born. This made many kinky people happy because it incorporated Bondage and Discipline (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS) and Sadomasochism (SM). We told the Love Bondage set that we loved them very much. To prove it, we tied them all up and dumped them in a deserted warehouse in East L.A. where we kept them bound in a circle whining Barry Manilow tunes from behind their gags. Did the arguments stop? Fat chance. Most of us, though, have found other things to argue about between sexual encounters.

Sex Gangbang/Orgy - When multiple partners, usually 3 or more, engage in sexual intercourse with a single willing partner.

Striptease Pro - A striptease is an erotic or exotic dance in which the performer gradually undresses, either partly or completely, in a seductive and sexually suggestive manner. The person who performs a striptease is commonly known as a "stripper" or exotic dancer.

Classic Massage - The therapeutic practice of manipulating the muscles and limbs to ease tension and reduce pain. Massage can be a part of physical therapy or practiced on its own. It can be effective for reducing the symptoms of disorders of or pain in the muscles and nervous system, and it is often used to reduce stress.

Prostate Massage - Prostate massage is the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland for medical purposes or sexual stimulation.

Golden shower - The act of pissing on another used as a means of sexual foreplay. Piss play.

Bondage - Any practice involving restraints placed on the body to restrict free Dom of movement.

Role playing - A role-playing game (RPG) is a game in which each participant assumes the role of a character, generally in a fantasy or science fiction setting, that can interact within the game's imaginary world.

Kinky - Sexual practices that many people view as wild, unusual, or extreme. Definitions of this word vary from person to person; someone might think wearing a red bra is kinky, or having sex with the lights on, but someone else will classify kinky as being suspended from the ceiling, whipped, and gagged. Guys are often surprised to discover that quiet girls are the kinkiest. But they're only quiet because they're imagining having lots of kinky sex.

Sex lesbian - Lesbian sexual practices are sexual activities involving women who have sex with women, regardless of their sexual orientation. A woman who has sex with another woman may identify as a lesbian.

Oral without condom OWO - Oral without a condom refers to a blowjob that is performed on a bare penis. It can be assumed that the "oral" being referred to is a blowjob because of the use of the word condom. A dental dam would be used in reference to cunnilingus.

Erotic Massage - Erotic massage or sensuous massage is the use of massage techniques to achieve or enhance sexual arousal. Massages have been used for medical purposes for a very long time, and their use for erotic purposes also has a long history. Today, erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. Erotic massages typically feature massages in the erogenous zones of the body to increase sexual arousal.

Spanking - Spanking, as part of sexual play, occurs when a person slaps a sex partner with an open hand or an object to heighten sexual arousal for one or both parties. Spanking is usually enjoyed by those who find sexual pleasure in pain. It can be done during foreplay or intercourse.

Photo/Video rec - The photographing of a sexual act.

Foot Fetish - A pronounced sexual interest and gratification in feet or shoes.

Tantra - Having sex in very long periods for the purpose of becoming closer and uniting as one. Originated from the Sanskrit word "Tantra" meaning woven together.

69 - Mutual, simultaneous oral sex.

AAMP - Apartment-based Asian massage parlor, as opposed to a commercial establishment.

ABC - American-born Chinese, also known as “banana”: yellow outside, white inside.

ABJ - American-born Japanese.

AC/DC - Bisexual.

A-Level - British parlance for anal sex.

AMP - Asian Massage Parlor.

Anal play - Refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, sex toys, or penis.

Anal sex - Penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as greek.

AO - Will see Asian clients only.

ASP - Adult Service Provider.

ATF - All Time Favorite.

ATM - Ass to mouth. Involves acts such as giving oral sex immediately after receiving anal sex, or putting a finger or a vibrator in one’s mouth immediately after anal penetration.

B & D - Bondage & discipline.

Baby dyke - A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.

Babyback - Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.

BBBJ - Bare back blow job. Giving unprotected oral sex to a man.

BBBJTC - Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom.

BBBJTCWS - Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.

BBBJWF - Bareback Blowjob With Facial.

BBFS - Sexual intercourse without a condom.

BBK - Big beautiful knockers.

BBW - Big beautiful woman. A woman who is Rubenesque, voluptuous, curvy.

BCD - Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will be described to a privileged listener or nobody at all.

BDSM - Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of this lifestyle.

Bear - A large hairy (homosexual) man.

Beard - A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could “pass” as straight, either for work or for their families.

Beret - A condom.

BF - Boyfriend.

BFE - Boyfriend Experience.

Bi twin - Adouble booking with two bisexual escorts.

Bisexual - A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.

BJ - Blow job, oral sex.

Blackhole - Anus.

BL - Body Lick.

BLS - Balls licking and sucking.

Blue pill or blue steel - Viagra.

Body-Rub - A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of “massage”, usually to indicate sexual stimulation.

Bondage - Sexual act that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner.

Brazilian - A form of bikini wax that removes the hair from the front, middle and rear of a woman’s pubic area. A “landing strip” is sometimes left at the front, others opt to have the hair completely removed.

Brown shower - Defecation on your partner.

BS - Body slide. An escort seductively slides her naked body over yours.

Bukkake - A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men.

CBJ - Covered blow job, protected oral sex with a condom.

CBT - Cock and ball torture – A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction of the male genitals.

CD - Cross dressing – a man who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex.

CDS - Covered Doggy Style.

CFM - Come Fuck Me, usually refer to the look of a person.

CFS - Covered Full Service.

CG - Cowgirl: she’s on top facing you.

CID - Cum In Deep. The provider lets you come inside her with no condom.

CIH - Cum in Hair.

CIM - Cum in mouth – to ejaculate in the mouth.

CIMWS - Cum in mouth with swallow. to ejaculate in the mouth and swallow the fluid.

CMP - Chinese Massage Parlor.

COB - Cum On Body. Man ejaculates on a woman’s body.

COF - Cum On Face. Man ejaculates on woman’s face

COM - Cum Over Mouth

Costumes and role play - The wearing of fantasy outfits and assuming the roles of characters, to heighten sexual excitement. Such examples of fantasy costumes can be nurse, school girl, maid, secretary and mistress.

Cougar - A more mature woman seeking a sexual relationship with a younger man.

Couples - A couple in a relationship. An escort that includes “couples” in her services list means she provides a bisexual service to a couple.

Cowgirl - Girl on top position for sexual intercourse. Sometimes abbreviated CG.

DATO - See rimming.

DATO - Dining At The O. Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus.

DATY - Stands for Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a woman.

DDF - Drug and Disease Free.

DDP - Double digit penetration. One finger in the vagina, and the other in the anus.

DFK - Deep French kissing, tongue kissing.

DFK - Deep French Kissing. Kissing with deep, substantial tongue contact.

Dinner companion - A social escort who accompanies you to dinner. May or may not provide sexual services.

Dirty talk - The practice of using graphic words to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy.

Doggy style - A sexual position, where the man penetrates a woman from behind.

Double penetration - When a person (generally a female) has two objects (generally penises) simultaneously inserted in any two of the mouth, anus or vagina (most commonly the anus and vagina).

DP - Double penetration. Two men penetrate one woman with vaginal and anal sex.

DSL - Dick-sucking lips.

DT - Deep throat. The technique of taking the entire length of a man’s penis in one’s mouth and giving oral sex.

Erotic sensual massage - A body rub that is intended to sexually stimulate the receiver.

Facial - Ejaculating on a woman’s face.

FBSM - Full Body Sensual Massage. A massage usually ending with a hand job. Often times the provider is nude or topless.

FE - Female ejaculation during orgasm. Also referred to as squirting.

Fetish - A need or desire for an object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement.

Filming - The film or digital recording of a sexual act.

Fire and ice - Giving oral sex and switching between hot tea and cold ice cube.

Fisting - The penetration of the whole hand inside the vagina or anus.

FJ - Foot Job. Stimulation of the penis using feet and toes.

FK - French kissing, tongue kissing.

Foot fetish - Intense sexual interest in the shape, size, smell, texture and other characteristic of a foot.

French - Oral sex, fellatio.

FS - Full service. Refers to an escort providing a full sex service.

Gagging - A sexual act of gratification where the female gags or chokes on a man’s erect penis.

GFE - Girlfriend Experience. A frequently used, but utterly nebulous term. It refers to a session that is more like lovemaking with a girlfriend than a commercial service, whatever that means! It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.

GF - Girlfriend.

Glory hole - A literal hole in the wall between two spaces. The legendary purpose of this hole is to insert one’s penis in hopes of receiving an anonymous (this is the main thrill) handjob, blowjob or coitus.

Greek - Anal sex.

GS - Golden shower. Involves watching an escort urinate, or one person passing water on another.

GSM - G-Spot Massage.

Happy ending - Hand job after massage.

HC - High Class.

HE - Happy Ending: usually a handjob or a blowjob after a massage.

HJ - Hand job. Sexually stimulating the penis by hand.

Chump - A man who gives his money and/or his attention to women without getting any pussy in return. Largely a phenomenon experienced by American men when dating American women.

Italian - Rubbing penis between the buttocks.

Kama Sutra or Kamasutra - A Sanskrit treatise setting forth rules for sensuous and sensual pleasure, love, and marriage in accordance with Hindu law.

Kitty - Vagina and/or surrounding areas. The words you can expect to see used together with K. are “bald”, “partly shaven”, “trimmed”, “natural”.

LD - Lap dance.

LFK - Light French Kiss. Kissing with only light tongue involvement.

LK - Light kissing, usually with a closed mouth.

LMT - Licensed Massage Therapist.

Massage - A method of treating the body for remedial or hygienic purposes, including but not limited to rubbing, stroking, kneading, or tapping with the hand or an instrument or both. It may, but does not necessarily, include sexual stimulation.

Masturbation - Sexually arousing one’s self, usually to the point of orgasm. Can be performed by use of fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy.

MFF - Male female female. A threesome with one man and two women.

MFM - Threesome designation: male, female, male.

MILF - Mother I’d like to fuck. Describes a sexually attractive female, usually several years older than the person using the term.

MJ - Massage Job.

MMF - Male male female. A threesome with two men and one woman.

MSOG - Multiple shots on goal. An escort providing MSOG service will allow a client to orgasm multiple times.

Multiple positions - An escort who allows you to have sex in many different styles and positions.

Mutual French - Both parties will give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time, is referred to as a 69.

Mutual masturbation - Escort and client sexually arousing themselves, while they voyeuristically watch each other.

Mutual natural French - Both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex.

Natural bush - Unshaven or unwaxed pubic hair.

Overnight stays - An escort who stays overnight at a client’s hotel or residence.

OVN - Overnight.

OWO - Oral without a condom.

OWOTC - Oral Without Condom To Completion.

Photography - The photographing of a sexual act.

PM - Prostate massage or Private message.

PNDP - Please, no dick pics.

Prostate massage - The massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland by anal penetration, for sexual stimulation. Sometimes referred to as the male G-spot.

PSE - Porn star experience. A sexual encounter that is very similar to what you would see in a pornographic film. Involves a wide range of sexual positions and tends to be very hardcore. The details of each escort’s porn star experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.

Punter - The client or customer of an escort.

Raw - Sex without condom.

Rimming - Licking the anus.

Role play - Also roleplay. Acting out sexual fantasies in a specific scenario, where participants are assigned roles: dog – owner, nurse – patient, teacher – student, etc.

Sex toy - An object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure. Includes such instruments as dildos, vibrators and strap ons.

Snowballing - The act of transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another.

Spanish - Rubbing the penis between an escorts breasts, sometimes until climax.

Spanking - The act of slapping another person’s buttocks for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties.

Spit roasting - A woman giving oral sex to one male whilst being penetrated from behind.

SP - Service Provider.

Squirting - A female ejaculating fluid from her vagina during orgasm.

Strap on - A dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner.

Strip tease - An erotic dance, where the escort slowly undressed for her client  in a teasing fashion.

Tea bagging - Placing a man’s balls in the mouth of a partner.

TG - Transgender.

Toy show - A masturbation show, by use of sex toys including vibrators.

Transgender - A person whose gender expression is different from how society says they are “supposed” to be.

Transsexual - A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.

Transvestite - A person who sometimes wears clothes traditionally worn by and associated with the opposite sex; typically a male who cross-dresses occasionally by habit or compulsion.

Tromboning - An act where a female kneels behind her male partner and licks his anus while masturbating his erect penis.

TS -Transsexual. A person with the urge to be the opposite sex. They may or may not choose to have gender reassignment surgery.

TTM - Testicular tongue massage.

TV - Transvestite.

Water sports - See golden shower.

WL - Working lady, escort.

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