Gentlemen, Don't Feed Courtesans' Greed!
Why do high end companions have a reputation for being greedy? And how do their clients feed the greed?
Is any football / hockey player worth several hundred thousand of currency per week? Are high end female companions worth thousands per hour? Human life may well be irreplaceable and time may well be increasing in value by the day, but I still believe that the answer is no. Yet many men in powerful positions with unhealthy looks left by too much good living and more [corporate?] money than common sense don’t care about how much money they throw at their high end female companions for as long as these men get the acts they desire. Good living, hankering for ever more excitement, and the need for ego massage happen on spontaneous impulses, and spontaneous impulses exclude thinking about consequences of actions carried out during them. If urges of the present instance spur men to comply with these wonen’s claims for high end gifts, that is precisely how the men’s actions encourage those women’s greed. Is there any wonder why these – and other – men then wonder why women are so greedy and / or complain at how much high end companions charge!
Anyway, how do high end female companions claim the right to claim gifts on their websites in addition to the fees for their companionship? I’ve seen high end companions not only dedicate pages of their websites to gifts, but even link to the websites that stock the gifts to make their purchases more convenient for their clients! How do they claim the right? Based on the fact that someone once gifted them and that created inspiration for them to claim gifts thereafter? Or based on the fact that they got away with it once or a few unique times and came to take it for granted instead of being eternally grateful for every little more? Or based on a colleague of theirs having told them that she got away with it and advised they tried it?
Or do these greedy high end companions dedicate pages of their websites to claiming high end gifts as a marketing device employed to make their high end image and status look more credible? Even if that were true, these women’s disrespect for their clients won’t change no matter how we look at it. A gift should always be a gift, not a product of dictation. So if they’re marketing gifting by dictation, they’re marketing their manipulative characters and the image of treating men as objects via which to achieve these wonen’s own ends. But then don’t cry when your clients get your subtle but powerful message and start treating you as a millionaire’s bimbo pendant, because gift for act = tit for tat and if you invite to manipulate, you equally invite to be manipulated!
In any case I see this practice as totally unethical and disrespectful for the clients of those high end companions who employ it! This principle of gifting is identical to that of tipping: tipping should be at the client’s discretion, not at the service provider’s dictation. If a client wishes to tip for good service or give a gift from his own initiative as a token of his best form of showing appreciation, thanks, dedication, or whatever, the best and most respectful thing a staff member or a high end companion can do is to gracefully accept it with sincere thanks, but not with the attachment of starting to take this for granted and expecting it to become the norm! The societies to which this forceful gift-claiming practice applies have lost the plot on this, yet they’re usually the very ones who talk about materialism and greed being bad things! Just look at restaurants today – not only do they inform you on the bill that an x per cent service charge has already been added to the bill total, but the waiters still give you dirty looks if you don’t tip them! Outrageous! Besides, who can tell me why on earth the waiting, hairdressing, taxi driving, and hotel portering professionals should be singled out for tipping? Why would you never tip your accountant, lawyer, or drycleaner for excellent service? Is this not flying in the face of all this equality stuff we’re all inundated with these days? To my view waiters, hairdressers, taxi drivers, hotel porters chose their careers and accepted the employments with the wages, warts and all. So there’s no excuse for tipping any of them if only to boost their wages. I’m sure my point needs no more laboring.
Would you ever imagine there’s a science [albeit not rocket science] behind this phenomenon? I would and had a long time ago, but it took me the right type of inspiration to share my view with you that this practice is one that should honestly be stopped! If men want to give a woman a gift, that’s fine. But if you’re a man reading this, do it only if you want to, not based on a high end companion’s dictation. Remember that you’re voting with your money every time you spend it and you’re voting with your energy every time you take action. So vote carefully. Don’t encourage these greedy practices with your vote! Don’t vote for these practices to stay in operation!
And if you feel too weak to say no, or if you would feel guilty or mean, then get some good coaching!
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